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Belated Musing of a Wandering Family

By PapaWanderer July 29, 2019

Time gives perspective, and since it’s been about a year since our return, I think I can finally put down a few words to sum up our journey. The intent of making this site was to create something that our kids could have and reflect on as they get older. It’s been great fun cataloging the journey and we will continue to do so as we venture further afield across this great planet. We also get a lot of pleasure from strangers and friends who have happened upon the site. The sharing of our travels and the conversations it prompts are fantastic.

As I look back at a year in a car with my family, traveling almost 24,000 miles, experiencing new adventures, and connecting with old places and friends I just feel blessed. Watching my children grow in wonder and knowledge is a gift that will be the greatest I have ever been given. Getting to know my children in a way few father’s get to is nothing short of amazing. I have a much more real and deep relationship with each child. They are more open to sharing with Katie and I, even when it’s embarrassing or personal. I’m not sure how the depth of the relationships with our children would have occurred had we not spent so much time together. As we move forward, back in our “normal” lives, the relationships keep getting stronger. Now I’ve always had a great relationship with the kiddos, but what I gained from our year wandering was a profound depth.

The relationship wasn’t just one way either. I feel our kids have a better understanding of mom and dad because they got to see many of the aspects of life that we hold dear. Adventure, nature, beauty in the simplest of things, great friendships, meeting new people, and respecting/taking care of the world we live in. One of the main goals Katie and I had for the trip was to give our children the ability to be flexible and to adapt quickly to new experiences. We also wanted to instill in them a sense of exploration of the world around them. We wanted them to know that the world is soo much bigger than the small town we live in. As Katie and I talk about the adventure, we feel all the kids have developed these traits and have started to incorporate them into their own personalities. Each child has been changed forever by the experience and it is exciting to see how they carry that forward as they grow up.

I would recommend this experience to every family. We know that taking a full year off to do so might not be realistic for everyone. But even a week or two of time with your kids, going somewhere you’ve never gone before, can be life-changing. Katie and I will always cherish this journey as something that was truly a once in a lifetime experience and profoundly life-affirming. We will always wander, sometimes alone, sometimes together, ever forward, and never lost.

The Nomads will Return…

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From South Dakota to East Jordan…The Final Miles

By PapaWanderer April 19, 2019

Mount Rushmore

It’s been an amazing journey as we’ve navigated the length and breadth of these beautiful United States. But as with all things, there has to be an end. Our end is coming soon, but we have a couple of stops left before we make the final push back to our home. After leaving Colorado we headed northeast to visit the Mount Rushmore National Memorial. Both Katie and I have visited before but we thought it would be a nice final spot for the kids. The area has all the history of Mt Rushmore and the gold rush but also plenty of touristy fun.

We spent twos days in the Black Hills taking in a little history and having some fun in town. Mount Rushmore is a cool stop. It’s very popular and crowded but learning the history of why and how it was created is fascinating. Seeing the big heads of the presidents is cool and you really get a sense of their sheer size while your there. It’s also amazing to think that they carved 90% of the faces using dynamite to blow away the surface rock. We had a fun day at the park and then headed to town for some food. We found a surprisingly great Indian restaurant and had a wonderful dinner to cap off our day.

The next day we stayed around town and took in some of the local flavor. One awesome place we found was the Rushmore Tramway Adventures park. The park offered one of the coolest ropes courses I’ve seen and an Alpine Slide!! Katie and the girls decided to go on the ropes course. Colette had been asking to do a ropes course for about 4 months so this was a special treat for her. Lennox and I went on the Alpine Slide and had a blast luging down the mountain and feeling the G’s as we sped much too fast around the corners. The day was awesome and we all had a great time. If you embrace the complete tourist trap this area is you can have a great time. The next day we were off to make the two-day journey to Chicago and an impromptu family get together before making the push home.

It’s Waiting for You…Wall Drug

No trip across the country would be complete without passing (and stopping) at Wall Drug. The curious roadside attraction has been going strong for decades and offers ridiculous attractions and curios for everyone in your family. There’s not much to see when traveling through the plains so it can be a welcome pitstop for bored children and weary parents. I’ve passed by this place many times on my travels across the country but never really stopped. We decided to stop and explore for a bit as we made our way back to the REAL world. We had a blast. The place is full of western nostalgia, boardwalk games, and cookie signs. It seemed like there was something new and curious around every corner. Please note that there are innumerable small items for sale that your children will want. They are strategically located close to the floor and in every nook and cranny. My prediction is you will not be able to leave empty handed…and that’s ok. A little piece of Americana can go a long way to making an enjoyable trip across the country.

The McLeod’s in Chicago

This was a short but sweet couple days in Chicago. We stayed with my older brother and his family so the kids were able to spend some quality time with their two cousins. We arrived late on Friday, and on Saturday we had a BBQ planned with my other brother who also lives in the Chicago area and my folks who came in from Michigan. We had a wonderful time together, as we always do, but it was much too quick. In the blink of an eye, it was Sunday and we had to pack up our car for the final drive home. We said our happy and tearful farewells and headed east for northern Michigan and the house we left behind. I would have said “our home” a year ago but one of the most profound things you realize when traveling for this long is that home is always with you as long as you have your loved ones close at hand. Next stop…The Epilogue…

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Detour – East Coast Adventure

By mamawanderer August 3, 2018

School’s out and we are all ready to enjoy the added freedom that brings. The start of our summer vacation happened to coincide with the McLeod family get together so this was the perfect vacation to kick off summer fun. We were retracing our steps all the way back to the East Coast and Kiawah Island, South Carolina was our destination but first, we had some work to do. After arriving in Las Vegas we decided the safest bet would be to unload our entire car and all our belongings into a storage unit for safekeeping while we were away. Off we went unpacking in scorching desert heat. The good thing is by now we are pros at packing and unpacking so it was pretty speedy and left us time to enjoy some Vegas fun before heading out.

Our flight was smooth as we left the low hundred degrees desert heat and landed in the dripping humidity of South Carolina. Matt and his family vacationed on Kiawah Island when he was a child so it was fun to watch them relive memories and introduce this special place to the next generation of McLeod’s. It was a big clan with Mom and Dad, our 5, and Pete and Laura and their six kids. The more the merrier as we ran from the house to the rolling waves and sandy beach. The water was warm, the sun was hot and laughter was loud on this island paradise. There was sand castle building, body boarding, wave chasing, crab catching, cold drinks, great food and even better company. The kids are already making plans for next year as there is nothing like spending morning until night with your cousins by your side. We will see where that adventure takes us.

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Brian Head, Hurricane, St. George & Dinosaur Tracks… it’s sounding weird

By mamawanderer July 30, 2018

Welcome to Utah

We drove out of Yellowstone and made it to Salt Lake City where we spent a night to break up the drive. We have found the kids do better if we don’t have super long drives and it’s probably the same for the parents. We were also planning on camping for the next 4 days and with it being summer we wanted to find a campsite early. Our camping plans were quickly kiboshed after Lennox got sick. We decided to find an Airbnb rather than stay in a tent with a puking child. The temperatures were also dropping into the low 40’s at night in the area and although we could do it, that is pretty chilly for the kids. Our last minute search lead us to a place we had never heard of, Brian Head, Utah, for a few nights. It’s always good to be flexible while traveling and also can be fun to discover places you may never find otherwise. Brian Head is a super small town/ski resort sitting at an elevation of 10,000 ft. It is way up there and you can feel it. It is about an hour from Bryce Canyon National Park and we discovered 10 minutes away was Cedar Breaks National Monument. Being at a ski resort in summer meant we had the whole place to ourselves and it ended up being a perfect spot to relax and recover our sick little guy and then explore some spectacular parks.

Brian Head and Cedar Break National Monument

The drive up the mountain to Brian Head opened our eyes to the destruction a forest fire can cause. There were stretches of trees charred black for miles. In 2017 a wildfire burned 71,000 acres of the land here, the aftermath is very sad to view. Cedar Break National Monument is an enormous amphitheater of beautifully colored sedimentary rock that has been carved away into beautiful formations. We viewed this park from above and it was a spectacular site. It is part of the Grand Staircase, a geological formation which begins at the floor of the Grand Canyon and steps up across the Western US. Seeing these natural wonders and learning about the geology behind their formation makes you realize just how fluid the earth’s surface is and gives you perspective on time and the mere blink of an eye we stand on this earth.

Bryce Canyon National Park

Bryce Canyon is out of this world. From your drive into the park the red-hued rock formations are spectacular and as you explore further it becomes even more impressive. Looking out from above the park offers amazing views of the hoodoos balancing below and as you walk into the canyon your perspective changes and you begin to appreciate the enormity of the formations surrounding you. We started our day here early to beat the heat and it is a good thing we did because it gets smoking hot at the bottom of the canyon. We took the Navajo Loop/Queens Garden trail which starts at the rim of the canyon and quickly descends in elevation while you walk along a windy path with steep drops. This always makes me a little nervous with the kids but they did great and the path was quite wide and well traveled. As we dropped down it was evident how difficult the steep hike up was and we knew we would have some work on the other side getting out. We enjoyed our time and our surroundings, many of the rock formations have names, like Thors Hammer, the Queens Garden, Wall Street, so it is fun to look at these and make up your own. Being at Bryce is like walking through a fairyland, each hoodoo formation is unique and unbelievable. I’m not going to lie our hike was tough, it was 3 miles and 600 ft of elevation but the heat was a factor, and the kids aren’t always sunshine and rainbows. They did realize in order to get back to our car we needed to climb out of this canyon so with many breaks and some snacks they pushed on. We were playing leapfrog with another family with small children so this added some excitement. I was happy when I saw the mom carrying her little one up the steep hills that Lennox was only pulling on my arm and still able to walk. There were definitely some big cheers as we reached the top of the canyon and cold drinks needed, it was a great accomplishment and well worth the trek to the bottom.

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Hurricane, Utah

After leaving Brian Head we had a short drive to our next Airbnb in Hurricane, Utah. It is right next to St. George which we discovered is the fastest growing metropolis in the United States! There is construction on every corner of this place and it is pretty wild. You can see why people are coming here in droves, the weather is warm and it is surrounded by amazing rock formations. It is an outdoor playground with lots of mountain biking and a short two-hour drive from Las Vegas. We had a week here and our main goal besides exploring was finishing school. I appreciate what teachers endure at the end of the school year so much now. The last month was a struggle, we, however, promised (or bribed) the girls if they finished their books by the end of this week they would be able to buy guinea pigs upon our return. With lots of hard work, they both busted through their books and I was as excited as they were to be done with their homeschooling year!!!

Zion National Park

We heard Zion gets super crowded and in order to secure parking, you have to arrive early. Early isn’t too hard for us so we were fine with that. In addition, it was going to be another hot one so the morning hikes are best. We didn’t anticipate just how many people were swarming on Zion though. By the time we got in line for the bus into the park, the wait was already an hour! The hour passed as the kids chased lizards and frogs and did some Junior Ranger work. Not so bad. We opted for 3 shorter hikes and this gave us a perfect first taste of Zion.

Searching for Dino Tracks

We were full of excitement to find out we were staying in an area with evidence of dinosaurs nearby. We had to go investigate. The first site we went to was ok but a bit of a letdown. We found the marked tracks after hiking a short ways in scorching heat, they were small and hard to decipher. To the non-paleontologist I think they look like scratches in the rock but that’s ok, knowing this was a path actual dinos stepped foot was amazing and we were glad we went, the hunt was still on though. The next day we ventured out to the second site. This was an adventure, lots of dirt road driving through the desert with no cell signal and no cars in site. It’s amazing how remote so much of the land in the United States is. It felt like if our car broke down we may never get help but that didn’t happen and we always are prepared with lots of water just in case. When we arrived at the actual site there was great signage explaining the tracks and what dinos they belonged to. These tracks were huge and it was well worth the desolate drive to see them.

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New Adventures in the Old Southwest – Bisbee, AZ

By mamawanderer April 24, 2018

For the most part, our Airbnb’s on this trip have been great. We have stayed in a range of places from good to amazing and this was our first strike out! I know, as much as we tried to like it, it just wasn’t happening. The place was cave-like, not super clean and just really dingy. It was livable and always good for all of us to experience the not so perfect side of the world so we stuck it out but it didn’t create the best atmosphere for enjoying this quirky Southern Arizona town of Bisbee.

A Glimpse of Bisbee

Copper Mines

Bisbee sits in the mountains surrounding the Queen Mine where massive amounts of copper were mined. The mine is closed now but the pit remains and it is so enormous you can’t even see to the bottom from most vantage points. The town is very eclectic and it’s hard to tell the hipsters from the people who have lived this fad their entire life. Needless to say, it’s a cool place to visit despite being way off the beaten path.

Queen Mine Tour

A journey back in time and 2000 feet into the deep recesses of the earth. That’s how Matt and the girls spent their morning, exploring the old Queen mine. Lennox was too young to go so this was a daddy/daughter excursion. Colette and Sienna were both a bit nervous to go into the cave. After having watched Indian Jones and the Temple of Doom, I think they had a screwed up perspective of the “mine ride”. The actual tour was fantastic. Our guide played the tour like everyone was a new miner coming to work. He went over everything from safety, explosives, transportation, and ways to find the ore itself. They saw drilling tools, a mine elevator and even a bike modified to ride on the mine rails. A very fun way to spend a couple of hours and if you find yourself in this neck of the woods, definitely stop by. The kids really enjoyed riding the little train into the mine but I think for them the most fun part was picking out some dollar rocks from the gift shop!

Devil’s Claw Wash

We were lucky to visit Aunt Suzie and Uncle Jeff while in Arizona and even luckier to go on a great hike with our trekking guide Aunt Susie and her dog Bonita. Bonita was not so lucky as 8 devil’s claws (the biggest, gnarliest burrs I’ve ever seen) stuck to her fur. We hiked along a wash which was relatively dry and the kids loved the challenge of navigating through water and uncharted land. It was a lot of fun. Uncle Jeff didn’t join us because he was cooking a delicious meal which we all enjoyed following our hike. It is always great to meet up with family on the road and we really enjoyed our time together.

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Tombstone

Just a half hour drive from Bisbee is what my kids have deemed the “OLD OLD WEST” I guess it makes sense, if it was the Old West to me it must be the really old west to them. Yes, Tombstone is a real town, and it was the center of cowboy fighting, saloon swinging ruckus for quite some time. I never watched many old westerns but Matt did and he knows all the characters from Doc Holiday to Billy the Kid who roamed the streets of Tombstone. It’s a tourist destination for sure but we bought into the stagecoaches, saloons, old time photos and ice cream shops creating our own Western adventure.

Chiricahua National Monument

On our last day in Arizona before heading west to California we debated if we should make the 2-hour drive to Chiricahua National Monument. We decided to go for it and we’re so thankful we did. After driving miles and miles through flat barren desert land we came upon some trees, wound through some mountains and were faced with enormous rock formations. The rocks seem to be stacked and balanced on top of each other as far as the eye can see. Looking out at the formations is spectacular but we were lucky to find a hike which wound us down through the rocks and ended at a grotto we could climb into and explore. Climbing within the balanced rocks was even more thrilling than being surrounded by them. We have found whenever a hike involves scaling giant rocks the kids love it, and we do too, it was a great hike. The day was extremely windy which made for some interesting moments but thankfully our only windblown loss was a Junior Ranger book.

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